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Curious Fox Social: Discovering Your Relationship Design

May 3, 2017 @ 7:00 pm - 10:30 pm


This month we will be looking at different structures of relationships. Here are some options to start you off: monogamy, open relationships, polyamory, swinging, relationship anarchy, monogamish. That’s just the beginning! There are as many structures as there are relationships, each one custom tailored. So how do you figure out your ideal design? Panelists with a diverse representation of relationship types will share stories on their process of discovery. What do their designs look like now? What designs did they try throughout their journey? What were their breakthroughs and struggles? Are there designs they found are not for them? We will ask this month’s panel all of that and more!

Intrigued? Come join us at the Curious Fox Social! Relationship expert Effy Blue will lead an enlightening dialogue about relationship by design. We will explore the world of ethical non-monogamy by sharing stories of experienced non-monogamists, having an open Q&A, and fostering a welcoming social space for you to talk to other Curious Foxes.

Are you a Curious Fox?

Curious: An engaged interest, a desire for discovery, a dedication to growth.

Fox: In Japanese culture foxes (kitsune) are believed to possess high intelligence, long life, and magical powers as well as being faithful guardians, friends, lovers, and partners.

Combined, Curious Foxes will approach new situations with an open mind, wisdom, and humility. They will explore together while challenging themselves to look within. Curious Foxes know how to ask questions with purpose while being able to listen fully and authentically to their answers. Curious Foxes stay curious.

Join us on May 3rd at 7pm in Bushwick, Brooklyn. The panel will begin at 7:30 with more socializing from 9:30-10:30pm. The address and other details will be disclosed upon receipt of your RSVP a few days before the event. BYOB, and we will provide snacks. Tickets are $20, with all profits supporting our future programming endeavors. Thank you for your support!


“What a warm and wonderful group of people. I can’t wait to be with them again. The discussion was very thoughtful and informative. The insights expressed were reassuring and supportive.” – Bill

“Very welcoming, warm and friendly. The organisers had a true sense of community.” – Aston

“Effy is a great facilitator and both the presenters and other participants were full of great energy. I was a little nervous going in, but quickly felt at home among a welcoming community of fellow Curious Foxes!” -Paul

“Polyamory can seem like a dark, undiscovered landscape to those taking their first steps forward, but Effy’s warmth, openness, and curiosity is the sunrise over a placid and beautiful landscape.” -Eddie S

“Don’t think, just come … You get to meet most friendly and interesting people.” -Anonymous

“Although I’m already familiar and knowledgable about ethical non-monogamy and polyamory, I learned so much from the panelists.” -Anonymous

We hope to see you there!!!


We are offering two volunteer spots. Volunteers must arrive at the venue by 5:45pm sharp to help with setup, or stay after the event for breakdown (latest 11:30pm). Your ticket is free! 🙂 Email aloha at effyblue dot com with the subject “Curious Fox Volunteer.”

The address will be disclosed by email a few days before the event. This is a private community residence so please do not share it. The closest subway station is Myrtle-Broadway on the JMZ lines.

You must buy a separate ticket for each guest.

Photos and recording are not allowed in order to protect the privacy of all Curious Foxes. We are proud to foster a closed container for exploration.


May 3, 2017
7:00 pm - 10:30 pm


Effy Blue


To be disclosed upon purchase
Myrtle-Broadway JMZ Station
Bushwick, Brooklyn, NY United States
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