Resources  &  Self - Study

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I have a wide array of resources for your own learning. These tools are appropriate for all levels of experience!

RESOURCES LIST



Besides my original content, I have also curated a Resources List. These are some of my favorite events, groups,videos, podcasts, and people to follow. Enjoy!

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Curious Fox Social - It is for those who are curious about ethical non-monogamy. It is a popular discussion group that happens first Wednesday of every month. Limited availability so make sure you register early. Look at our events to RSVP!

 

For those who cannot come to the socials, we write up a summary of the themes and ideas that were discussed in the form of Fox Notes. To get these join our list here.

 
Poly Cocktails (2nd Monday of every month) at The Delancey - Open Love NY will post it when it is on.

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Curious Foxes Facebook group (secret)
You can find resources in the form of articles, images, and conversations in our secret (for your privacy) Facebook group. In order to get access you need to message us at Effy's page.

 

Effy Blue's Facebook page where we post events and make announcements.

 

 

 

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I also highly recommend these books. They are essential reading for those exploring relationships that fall outside the mainstream constructs. Ranging from how-to's to scientific theory to anecdotal stories, there's something here for everyone. Every day is a school day!

THE ETHICAL SLUT

"Is it possible to have multiple simultaneous sexual relationships?"

MORE THAN TWO

"How can I be egalitarian polyamorous in the most ethical way possible?"

OPENING UP

"What do open relationships look like and what are some things to consider?"

SEX AT DAWN

"Are humans inherently monogamous or nonmonogamous?"

THE POLYAMORISTS NEXT DOOR

"How does polyamory function long term? Like, what about the kids?"

8 THINGS I WISH I'D KNOWN ABOUT POLYAMORY

"What are some common pitfalls and how can I avoid them?"

THE JEALOUSY WORKBOOK

"What are some concrete exercises to help me address jealousy in my relationships?"

MATING IN CAPTIVITY

"Why do people stray in relationships and can the relationship survive infidelity?"

ATTACHED

"What are the different attachment styles, and how can knowing this improve my relationships?"

DESIGNER RELATIONSHIPS

"How do I custom design my own relationship structure?"

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